Worried

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Something happened at school this morning >_> Scared me half to death. Someone cut themselves in the bathroom and we all had to go to the cafeteria. They just told us the girl was sick and had thrown up, but one of my friends in my second period class told me that wasn't true. Some of my friends also got in a fight apparently, or something, this morning as well and one of them injured his hand by punching a pillar. It sounds like they were just goofing off at first but they wouldn't tell me what really happened. Later at lunch I saw that one of my friends was missing, and hadn't show up to class even though I saw her before going into the library and this whole series of whacked events occurred. I hope she's okay, and that it wasn't her in the bathroom. I just can't imagine what had happened, and it wasn't even ten minutes that I had been in the library that they had started clearing the halls and everything.

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Wow, that's scary. ._.
I hope it's not your friend, either.
Though that is a very strange cycle of events...

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It really is ><
I'm gonna have to wait till tomorrow before I find out, it's nerve wracking.
It is, I've tried to find out why all that had to happen in one day. No one will tell me anything though

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I don't mean to try and start to make you suspicious or worry you more, but I just re-read what you posted, and it seems sort of like what one might do if they were made fun of or rejected when they like someone.

Yeah, that sounds really weird, but think about it:

- A girl cut herself in the bathroom (Not actually proven)
- There was a fight between some guys
- Your friend is missing

Could it possibly be that your friend told one of the guys that she liked him, he denied her confession, she took it out in the only way she knew how, and he and his buddies got in a skirmish over it?

Again, this more than likely isn't the case- something else would have to be building up to have that take you over the top, either family issues or something along those lines.

That's just my inference from the information given.

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That's something kind of what I was thinking, but she has a boyfriend that goes to another school. I might not go to sleep tonight from worrying so much.

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Well, don't worry your head off about it - Human psyche always leads us on the path of 'worst possible thing ever', but we need to send out positive messages to the universe. We're given what we pray for the most. If you continue to pray that she's alright, and that everything's alright, it's actually focusing on the negative and praying that the negative occurs.

And I know it's difficult to listen to someone when they say 'don't think about it', because it is overwhelming, but that's how the law of the universe, and the law of fate, works. You have to send out more positive messages than negative ones, otherwise what you fear the most will come true.

So instead of saying 'I hope she's alright', instead say 'She is alright', 'They are alright'.

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thanks Sakie, that helps a lot. I'm just a big mother hen though, which is probably why they won't tell me. I tend to freak out, and it gets hard to think positive when I do. She is alright, I'll go to school tomorrow and she'll call me silly for thinking the worst.

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That's it. It's alright- I become a hen with some things, too. You just have to relax, take a deep breath, and switch your filter to positive reinforcement.

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haha ;w; I'll try